Love choices

*Love choices

what mysterious forces drive us into the arms of one person while pushing us away from other who might appear equally desirable to any unblased observer one of the most revealing according to jhon money a professor of medical psychology and pediatrics in the united state he calls the "love map"a group of messages incoded in our brains that describe our likes and deslikes it shows our preferences in hair and eye color,in voice,smell,body build.It also records the kind of personality that appeals to us,whether its the warm and friendly or the strong,silent type.
In short we fall for and porsue those people who most closely fit our lovemap.In this lovemap is largely determined in childhood by age eight.The pettern for an adeal mate has already begun to flout around in our brains.
What about opposites?are they usually atrracted to each other?Yes and No.In many ways we want a mirror image of ourselves physically attracted people,for example,our usually drawn to a partner whose equally attractive.most of us grow up with people are similar social circumstances.we hang around with people in the same town. our friends have the same educational backgrounds and career goals. we tend to be most comfortable with this people and therefore we tend to link up with others whose families are often much like our own.

*LIFE
People are born with the disposition to take care of other people, people ae born with the ability to take care only of themselves. people are born beneath of talent and techniques to drive there own car and to wash there own faces. they live together, each in accordance with his predistination man miht succeed in settin up are order in which he or she might essay a diffirent pattern of life but eventually there is a reversion to the natural order. it is in the book and in the vey nature of our selves that some people live to give life to other people. that some people live not knowing what for. that some people dont even knpw they are alive so in the rampant poverty and in justice and natural and corruption. take a cold drink and calm these shattered nerves. people are just people behavung in the manner they were made to behaveand if itsany consolation remember the five who were born with the haet and the disposition to take care of those who came alon minus such a heart and such a disposition. remember that those few are constantly on the job, ever if their efforts may seem butile at the moment important thin is that they are on the job.